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Re; in dire need
Posted by D. on April 27, 2008 at 06:53:44:
to the young man who feels he might be gay. if you feel this way explore it so you can be a happy individual. my own father was gay tried to live straight had a 25 yr misserable marriage. fathered too children and was horribly abusive to us. he never was happy drank a lot and ended up killing himself.
please be true too who you are the world will some day except that gay is not a choice or a Life style" just like people don’t decide to be straight. medical have shown a genetic factor. recent studys have shown that gay men actually have different chemical responces in their brain then others.
I am a married women with three children and a husband I am happy but still desire company of women. thanks to my husbands understanding I don’t have to choose but I do share. I guess what I am trying to say is simply this. be who you are be proud and ultimately you will be happy. oh and if it helps relocate to a bigger town.
love this sight thanks for evey thing that you all do! D
Webmaster Reply:
Thanks for the input and comments. I, too, have known older men - the generation before mine - who buried their true sexual selves because of societal pressures and who lived miserable, unhappy lives because of it. My view is this - you only go around once, so enjoy life and be true to yourself. Do not live your life by other people's standards. You will resent the world and hate yourself, wasting the time you've been given. A bit simplistic, I know, but it works.I was reminded once again of the cultural differences between certain areas when I picked up the Toronto Star yesterday. The lead story in the Travel section was of a gay walking tour in downtown Toronto that visits historic sites from the city's past. New York and San Francisco probably have similar walking tours, but somehow I doubt that Sheridan does.
Randy