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Losing Interest in Sex
Posted by J. on April 27, 2008 at 07:14:04:
I’m a 24 year old male, and I have had symptoms of delayed ejaculation off and on since my late teens. In the past, I’ve been able to work around it by talking with my partner and incorporating oral and manual stimulation in to our sex. In the past, intercourse has always felt great even if I don’t ejaculate. But lately I find myself getting to a point where I really lose interest in sex, and I lose my erection and just don’t have the urge to get off. I don’t have any problem getting an erection, I just get to a point where I’m “finished,” without actually ejaculating. Any thoughts, it’s getting to be really frustrating and almost enough to make me avoid sex.
Webmaster Reply:
I'm wondering if that will change when the right person comes along. If you were with someone you loved, satisfying her or him would be as important as satisfying yourself, if not moreso. I think that will change your indifference to enthusiasm. If you read this Board regularly, you will know the steps that help with Delayed Ejaculation. You could explore this further with your doctor, who may recommend a sex therapist. The pros have ways of dealing with DE that would be more helpful than we can be. Anyway, don't give up on sex. You're too young and things will get better.Randy