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RE:Breasts-Need Info
Posted by S. on May 01, 2008 at 06:15:01:
I had the same problem, mine went away after i switch birth controll pills. I forget which brand I was on, but Im on Sprintec now which is substituted for Ortho-Cyclen. they are 28 day tablets.
She should try that brand if her dr. will proscribe it for her, it may have the same affect it had on me.
oh, and tell her not to worry about the tissue, i'm sure she is a very pretty woman and shouldnt worry about such little things. It's how she feels about you that counts, being pretty on the outside is just a perk from being born. =)
Outter beautry is only skin deep, but inner beauty runs as deep as her love for you. So her outter appearance should only be worried about 2 things. 1: How she wants to look, but moreso 2: How you love the way she looks.
It's always best to encourage your woman that she looks best the way she is. If she wants to change something, it should be for HER and no1 else. Many women (myself once included) feel we dont meet standards and need to change ourselves. Which isnt true. If someone truely loves you, they wont care what you look like, how tall you are, what color your skin/hair/eyes are, or what religion you practice, they will love you just for you.
But in turn many men dont daily encourage their women (wives/girlfriends/ even daughters) that they are fine the way they are. And the some that do often forget to mention that if someone truely likes/loves them, that they will see things the same way.
Myself, I learned the hard way. I was abused since I was able to walk, up untill I was 15 when my father was arrested for trying to kill my mother,brothers and I. I had been taught I was a horrible, ugly, worthless waste of space and should have never been born.
From the age of 12 I had met a boy only 2 years older than I was (my husband) It took him 5 years to break what I had been taught my whole life. Constant praise on how perfect I am, in HIS EYES, not the worlds.
Take a lesson from him, he truely loves me. And he made me begin to actually love myself. Now, I really dont care what I look like as long as he's happy. I keep my hair cut short and wear whatever I want. If people give me strange looks IF I'm not laughing at them for it, I'm askin if there's a problem.
But for the man who wrote the "Breasts-Need Info" Try the brand I mentioned if that wasnt what she was on, and try to make her feel better about herself. Even if the outside changes, the inside wont.
=) Sorry Randy, Patsy. I made my email a mile long. But Love the Site, the Show, and you two are absolutely great. My Husband and I have watched the show for years and it's helped us answer questions we never had to ask.
Keep up the great work!
Webmaster Reply:
That is a helluva story. Glad you survived and found the love of your life. Love is the great healer. Thanks for your note.Randy