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Please help me understand!!
Posted by L. on May 09, 2008 at 05:49:00:
HELLO MY NAME IS L. AND IM FROM IDAHO. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 8 MONTHS NOW AND I CAUGHT MY HUSBAND MASTERBAITING IN THE SHOWER. THIS IS NOT THE FIRST TIME I HAVE CAUGHT HIM DOING THIS. WHY WOULD HE DO THIS TO ME? AM I NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR HIM??
Webmaster Reply:
I don't think he's doing it TO YOU. Most people masturbate themselves. You sound young and fairly inexperienced, but most people, and men in particular, continue to masturbate throughout their entire lives. Women tend to feel threatened by this - as in, 'Am I not good enough for him?' - but that has nothing to do with it. Men will masturbate if they get an erotic impulse, like one might get while having a shower, and it's quick and easy, and much faster than having a sexual romp with a partner. So, it is not a slur on your sexual attractiveness - for him, it is simply another sexual option. Research has shown that people reach higher levels of sexual stimulation from masturbation than they do from intercourse, so it's perfectly logical that men and women masturbate. Also, for men, it is very important for prostate health to continue masturbating. Men who masturbate regularly have far lower incidents of prostate cancer. So, leave him be. As long as he continues to put out for you, this is nothing to be threatened by.Randy