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In case you missed the results of previous surveys, here's a digest of what folks had to say.
(Figures rounded off. May not total 100%)
Survey taken Nov. 17 - Nov. 24, 2002
How often do you have sex? Women Men Once a week 14% 11% Twice a week 16% 16% Three times or more per week 30% 26% Twice a month 13% 10% Once a month 5% 6% Less than once a month 23% 32% How often would you LIKE to have sex? Once a week 9% 7% Twice a week 14% 13% Three times or more per week 45% 45% Twice a month 2% 1% Once a month 1% 1% Less than once a month 2% 1% Every day 28% 32%
Survey taken Nov. 24 - Dec. 1, 2002
What attracts you most to a partner? Women Men Face 17% 20% Personality 51% 38% Body 8% 25% Sense of humour 13% 5% Common interests 6% 7% Finances 1% 1% Intelligence 4% 4% What physical attribute turns you on the most? Eyes 45% 23% Mouth 17% 7% Chest 18% 25% Genitals 6% 9% Ass 12% 27% Legs 3% 10%
It's interesting how low the much-touted male ass was rated by women. Seems they prefer eyes after all. Not surprisingly, men rated "Body" only second to "Personality" in women. Who says men are shallow?
Survey taken Dec. 1 - Dec. 8, 2002
Have you ever had a G-spot (female) or A-spot (male) Orgasm? Women Men No 34% 52% Maybe, but I'm not sure 30% 25% Yes, a few times 23% 18% Yes, regularly 14% 6% Has your partner ever had a G-spot (women) or A-spot (men) Orgasm? No 50% 27% Maybe, but I'm not sure 35% 29% Yes, a few times 6% 27% Yes, regularly 3% 18%
34% of women said that they had never had a G-spot orgasm and another 30% said that they weren't even sure whether they'd had one or not. Their partners seemed equally baffled. Ah, the mysterious G-spot!
Both genders were much more definite about A-spot orgasms - 35% of women were not sure whether their male partner had had one or not, and 52% of the men said that they were too uncomfortable to even try. Yet, to their credit, 25% of men had tried to stimulate their A-spot and 18% had succeeded. Go team!
Survey taken Dec. 15 - Dec. 22, 2002
Have you ever fantasized about having sex with more than one partner at a time? Women Men Never 21% 8% Yes, on occasion 62% 62% Yes, frequently 17% 30% In your fantasy, whom would you be having sex with? Two other partners of your own gender 8% 9% Two other partners, one of each gender 40% 13% Two other partners of the opposite gender 47% 74% More than two other partners 4% 4%
Survey taken Dec. 22 - Jan. 5, 2003
If your partner bought you a vibrator for Christmas, which would you prefer? Women Men A small finger-worn one for stimulating clitoris and testicles 32% 35% A small one for anal stimulation 4% 18% A large one for vaginal insertion or anal stimulation 20% 24% A double-headed one for vaginal and clitoral stimulation 38% 14% None - I think they're digusting 7% 10% If your partner gave you such a gift, would you: Be pleased 52% 47% Feel threatened 5% 7% Be hurt 4% 7% Run to the bedroom to try it out 39% 39%
This survey had nearly 2600 respondents, so it's a very large sampling. The results are clear - both sexes would enjoy having a vibrator of some sort. Women prefer double-headed vibrators for vaginal and clitoral stimulation. Men prefer small finger vibrators for testicular massage, although a large vibrator for anal stimulation obviously piques their curiosity. Take my advice, fellas, start small!
Survey taken Jan. 5 - Jan. 12, 2003
How often do you masturbate your self? Women Men Daily 8% 24% A few times every week 32% 38% A few times every month 35% 26% More than once a day 3% 5% Never 22% 8% How would you feel if you caught your partner masturbating? Like I had somehow failed 19% 11% That my partner is perverted 4% 2% Hey, have a nice ride! 78% 87%
The astounding stat here is how many women don't masturbate at all - 22%. Men, on the other hand, masturbate several times a week. This survey had 1500 respondents.
Survey taken Jan. 12 - Jan. 19, 2003
If you caught your partner participating in a sex chat room online, how would you feel? Women Men It's just harmless flirting. 20% 23% He or she is cheating on me. 44% 29% It may enhance our love-making. 20% 30% I don't care. 16% 18% If you caught your partner viewing porn online and masturbating, how would you feel? It's just harmless fun. 33% 54% He or she is cheating on me. 7% 4% Shouldn't I be the one turning him or her on? 49% 27% I don't care. 11% 16%
This survey tackles a topic that comes up repeatedly on TALK SEX - Is cybersex cheating? Women definitely think that participating in a Chat Room is cheating; men think so too, but not as strongly. They also view it as a vehicle that will turn their partners on and allow the men to reap the benefits. When it comes to viewing porn on line, once again, it made women feel that they were failures and men simply view it as a masturbatory tool.
This survey had 1450 respondents, two-thirds of them women, who obviously take this topic more seriously than men.
Survey taken Jan. 19 - Jan. 26, 2003
From whom did you learn about sex? Women Men Mother 17% 8% Father 2% 7% Sibling 4% 5% Friends 39% 49% Sexual partner 19% 18% School sex ed program 16% 14% If you had or have kids, whom would you want them to be learning from? Parents 86% 73% Siblings 1% 1% Friends 4% 7% Sexual partner 2% 4% School sex ed program 8% 15%
There was a huge response to this survey with nearly 3,000 entries. People strongly feel that parents should provide sexual education to their children, although the vast majority of respondents learned elsewhere.
Hey, in order for parents to teach their kids, they are going to need to be taught themselves. This clearly is not happening and the U.S. government's plan to fund "abstinence only" programs exclusively is completely bone-headed. Statistics prove over and over again that countries with the best sexual education programs have the lowest teen pregnancy rates. The U.S. has the world's highest. What does that tell you?
Survey taken Jan. 26 - Feb. 2, 2003
How many sexual partners have you had in your lifetime? Women Men One 22% 20% 2 to 5 33% 33% 6 to 10 18% 17% 11 to 15 10% 11% More than 15 17% 19% Did having different partners help you improve your sexual skills? Yes 64% 71% No 36% 29%
This survey had a huge response of nearly 3,000 entries. It's interesting that although both genders generally had had the same number of partners over their lifetime, men felt that the variety had improved their sexual skills more than women did.
Survey taken Feb. 2 - Feb. 9, 2003
If I could choose, here's what I would want the most for Valentine's Day: Women Men Chocolates 4% 2% A shopping spree 13% 5% A vibrator 8% 4% Sex 26% 58% A romantic dinner 49% 31% Which day is more important to you - Valentine's Day or your anniversary? Valentine's Day 13% 8% Anniversary 72% 74% Who cares? 15% 18%
There were 2600 respondents to this survey. Women want a romantic dinner, and men want sex. Quelle surprise!
Survey taken Feb. 9 - Feb. 16, 2003
Have you ever fantasized about having sex with someone of your own gender? Women Men It did cross my mind once or twice. 41% 26% I've thought about it many times. 30% 15% Never. 30% 59% Have you ever acted on this fantasy? Yes, and it was fine. 13% 8% Yes, and I regret it. 3% 3% No, I'm too chicken. 43% 20% No, because I just don't have this fantasy. 35% 65%
We were surprised at the number of women who had considered a same-sex encounter. The general perception is that men are more inclined towards bisexuality, but in this survey, the women beat them hands down - 71% vs 41%. Men are much more squeamish about this subject and hate to admit to finding another man attractive because they feel that's a sign of weakness. Just ask the average guy if his male friend is good looking, and he'll say, "How would I know?" Well, they DO know. They're not blind and they always compare whether another guy is better looking than they are. One always has to consider the competition!
However, having a fantasy and acting on it are two different things, as we can see in the second question. 3200 respondents took part in this survey, the largest yet.
Survey taken Feb. 16 - Feb. 23, 2003
While you are having sex, do you fantasize about someone else other than your partner? Women Men On occasion 41% 40% Frequently 10% 13% Never 49% 47% If your partner was fantasizing about someone else, would you be hurt? Yes 63% 45% No 37% 55%
The answers to the first question are surprisingly similar, but the response to the second question confirms that men are from Mars and women are from Venus! 1600 respondents.
Survey taken Feb. 24 - Mar. 2, 2003
Which is sexier on a man? Women Men Boxers 73% 59% Briefs 24% 30% Jock strap 3% 11% Which is sexier on a woman? Lingerie 60% 43% Bikini 12% 12% Pajamas 10% 12% G-string 18% 32%
2000 respondents to this survey.
Survey taken Mar. 2 - Mar. 9, 2003
Have you ever cheated on your partner? Women Men Never 69% 69% Once 14% 11% More than once 18% 20% Do you think your partner has ever cheated on you? No 60% 66% Yes 24% 20% I've got my suspicions 17% 14%
These results are lower than similar surveys where the average of unfaithful partners is around 40%. Perhaps we have a more faithful audience. 1800 respondents to this survey.
